Why Do Men Like Facials In Porn?

I can't speak for other men, but I can speak for myself (hence this blog). 

Several years ago I was sitting around the campfire with some friends that I was not "out" to as poly, kinky, bisexual, etc. The discussion veered towards a more risqué nature and a friend of mine who is a lesbian asked aloud "Why do men like to see facials in porn?" 



I wasn't able at the time to get into the discussion, so E, this is for you (and me). First, let's break it down.

Ejaculation

Orgasms feel good, make no mistake about that, but the icing on the cake of an orgasm is the feeling of cum working its way through my cock and shooting, spurting, and oozing out of the tip. There is something about the substance itself that has a tactile feeling that is special and intense. Seeing another man shooting his load gives me an empathic feeling of joy, knowing how good cum feels shooting out.

I like the feeling of cum

I really do. It has this neat feeling on my tongue and lips that I describe as "numb-like" but not like "numbness" meaning a lack of sensation, more like a very light buzzy feeling at the surface of my lips. 

I like the taste of cum

It is an acquired taste, but I like it. When I'm giving a blow job, I want to taste his load.


Cum is special

Men cannot shoot a load voluntarily, they have to have an orgasm to get there. If you want saliva, you've got it in two seconds. If you want urine, within a couple of minutes. But for cum, a man has to be aroused enough to get a hard on and pleasured enough to achieve an orgasm of sufficient strength. So making a man cum means that I or the person I'm watching has given the man enough pleasure to bring him to that high level of existence, the orgasm. Receiving that cum is like a reward for a job well done, the fruits of labor if you will. 

For me, giving cum is an emotional high as well since I am giving a special and precious fluid that is a part of me and only released via sexual expression, it is in itself a form of communication or expression. So for someone to actually want to have my cum in them and/or on them, what that communicates to me is I am desired and accepted and appreciated. 

So what about that porn?

Seeing a pretty face with cum on it is not in and of itself the attraction for me. I have seen a lot of cumshots on a woman's face that she clearly did not want, and that is a turn off for me. If she thinks that its "icky", then it is. some examples:


Clearly, these women are not enjoying their gifts

And I don't blame them. If you are not into the guy that you are pleasing, then his cum will just be an icky, sticky mess that you can't wait to wash off. 

Now when the receiver is into their guy's load:

Isn't that just beautiful? Sure, it's messy and could have gone in their mouths instead, but in my fantasy world I would be licking and kissing it off of their faces then french kissing the cum into their mouths. Bonus points if it is other guys cum!

What about the guys?

For some reason, most gay and bi porn I see the guys are not very passionate about much:




Occasionally I come across some pics or vids of guys that look like they are enjoying it:


 

So to wrap things up here

I like to see facials in porn because I like to give and receive facials in real life. I feel that porn is an art form and since art imitates life and life is beautiful, porn is therefore beautiful. I mean, just look again at this last picture...the four cocks (they are all beautiful), in such close proximity (a beautiful event), framing the handsome of the guy with such a cute smile (he looks beautiful), with cum running down his cheeks (as if he just took four loads). When I look into his eyes I want to kiss him and hold him close so some of the cum rubs off on me.  




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