The Garden of Hedon

Polyamory, is usually not depicted in the media very favorably.... ....but I have discovered a new web based series drama showing on Youtube called "Compersion" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9rsCdxctICE So far we have Season 1 out, with 13 episodes. I heard about the show from one of my favorite podcasts " Polyamory Weekly " and got quickly hooked into it. The story follows a couple who explore polyamory, but not how it is usually portrayed from a white, upper-middle class, patriarchal perspective. This show has an all black cast, the wife is the one who brings it up and wants to try it, and the couple make all the usual mistakes that couples make when entering into polyamory without doing the research about it. The production values are good, with good actors, sound and lighting. This was not done by amateurs with a shaky hand camcorder. Check it out, let me know what you think.   

I got some, I like em. A lot of people nowadays have tattoos. I got my first one 30something years ago, added a few more over the years, but getting covered with large swaths of ink was not my thing. For myself and my body, just a few as accents.  As time went by, tattoos became more popular in society and more accepted for women to get tattoos.  When I was young and got mine there was no sexual connotation in my thinking. Tattoos were not erotic to me. But as I started to see more women with tattoos, my perspective started to change. What follows is my thoughts and feelings on tattoos on women. Tattoos on men will be the subject of another post in the future.  Tramp Stamps A tattoo across the lower back, usually centered right in the middle. I generally like these and have thought about getting one myself. Of course, on some women these can look bad, trashy, unflattering....I guess it depends on the body and design as to what turns me on, but this one looks good to me.

Now the US presidential elections are are past and my worst fears have come to pass....the president is going to be an obnoxious right-wing con man and the Republicans have more power than they did before. I'm disgusted with my country on so many levels, but mainly for falling for this obvious huckster and the cabal of regressive idiots, parasites, and theologogues (I just made that word up) that account for the Republican party. It's not that I liked Hillary Clinton and wanted her as president, but I never believed the lies about her that the vast right wing conspiracy always told about her. I didn't agree with a lot of her policy decisions, but I never hated her for Benghazi, emails, being a supposed liberal, etc.  I like the idea of a woman president and after all the experiences of her career I think that she is eminently qualified for the office. Even if it was true that she is a secret lesbian than I would like it even more if she was elected then came out. So at

.....in life and location. Sometimes the best laid plans get changed for you against your wishes. I had a good thing going with my home life with my wife, my work life being local and high up on the totem pole of seniority, and my bisexual BDSM poly tribe that I was getting together with and exploring so much sexscape and having fantasies come to life. But then things changed at work and I was faced with a choice of being laid off and having to look for work in an area with a dearth of opportunities in my field, or taking a job far from home and having to move away, while advancing my career at a better venue. I chose the latter. An almost 3 hour drive away from home over narrow, winding mountain roads is the small coastal town of Fort Bragg, California. It's in Mendocino County which is part of the Emerald Triangle. The views of the ocean are stunningly beautiful and the climate is mild, cool in the summer and warmed by the Pacific Ocean during the winter. At face value, it

I like oral sex. I like to lick. I like to suck. I like the feeling of someone responding to my attempts to pleasure them with my mouth. With women, the ultimate reward I receive is a moistening pussy, getting juicier and juicier with my tonguing, followed by a release of the floodgates of wetness. It gives me pleasure not only because I have given pleasure to the woman (mission accomplished!) but I genuinely like the taste of a wet vagina. Guys, don't worry....I love to suck cock, too! I love the taste (and feel) of a nice cock in my mouth, and for all the same reasons that I like to feel my lover have an orgasm, I also love the taste of a load of cum in my mouth. Of course, I want to do everything in excess....so combining the two is something I've done once and would like to do a lot more of. Like going down on her: I would love to bury my face in her crotch, plunge my tongue deep into her pussy and lap out his cum, finishing her off with dutiful clit t

Much to my surprise, this blog has had over 1,200 page views....I never thought it would have gotten that much. I started it as a stream of consciousness expression of things I have on my mind. At the bottom of each posting is a link to leave a comment. I invite people to leave comments, ask questions, and to generally give feedback. 

The other day I was talking with Sir on the subject of jealousy, specifically the feelings involved with watching or knowing that your loved one is having sex with someone else. This is something that comes up a lot in polyamory. My lovely wife of ten years is asexual, towards me at any rate. She does not desire sex. She is affectionate, warm, loves to cuddle and be intimate, but she does not desire orgasms or any sexual act, at least with me. When we first opened our marriage five years ago, she did try out a relationship with a guy who lived in another part of the state several hours drive away. She went away for a four day weekend to spend some time with him. After she returned home we went for our usual afternoon walk and I asked her how things went. She said that she had a good time. I asked her if she had sex with him and she said that they did. I asked her if she enjoyed it and she said that she did. I asked if she was planning to see him again and she said yes, which I e

We did it again..... The four of us got together for another awesome foursome session, this time things went even better than the last. Two weeks or so after our first foursome, we made plans to get together again, this time we had the benefit of discussing what worked for us and what didn't. It also worked out that while I was having to drive through some of what is considered to be one of the worst metro traffic areas of the country, I was off work early enough to grab a bite to eat and make it to Sub's house right on time. By the time I got there my meal was digested and I was ready to get to play.  After a little bit of casual chat Sir ordered us into action. Dutifully we obeyed. Sub commenting on how much she was enjoying herself that evening.  Sub has a Phd in cocksucking.  Scooter wanted to get dressed up for this session. Thats Sub burying her tongue in my ass while Sir was feeding his cock to me and Scooter. Notice the pink g

I recently achieved a few long standing goals of mine all in one night, and it was one of the best experiences I have had in my life (so far). I had a BDSM bisexual foursome! It all started a few months ago when I was perusing the Craigslist personals on a rare whim. Most of the time I have done this I either don't find what I am looking for or something that sounds great is too far away geographically, so I never set my expectations high when looking at ads. Mostly I do it for amusement or the offhand chance that I might find that gem of the right fit for me. Well, this was the latter. I found an ad of a couple that sounded like a good fit for me and they listed specific criteria that was a close match for me. I answered the ad, heard back from the male half of the couple and we started corresponding back and forth, then met for a walk and chat. Sir is a Dom who is bisexual. He has a stocky build, nice eyes, killer smile, and a very nice grounded personality. His girlfriend

Here is a link to an interview with porn legend Nina Hartley. It's over an hour long and she discusses her career in porn, polyamory, swinging, BDSM, and her general philosophies on life, love, and sexuality.  I've always thought that she had beautifully shaped ass and the physical attraction has always been there, but this interview made me fall in love with her mind! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s7zdMt40NzI